Some women have constantly complained about how their male partners are hygienically challenged. Now some women have gone the extra step and outlined some of the worst hygiene practices that they have experienced from men, especially during intimacy.
Below are some of the responses to a question on hygiene posed to them by podcaster and social media personality Oloni Baby.
My ex used to always want me to do some anal play with him but he had the worst hygiene. Whenever I would go near his ass I would be so dirty as if he never even wiped. I would always have to go and tell him to shower or clean again before we did anything, even for blowjobs I would always have to tell him to wash his dick and balls because they smelt like something dead. I actually can’t even believe he would ask me for head with confidence knowing his dick smelt like that. Another time, We once were gonna get a bit freaky at a house party but he refused (which was really out of character) to then tell me earlier he had to take a shit in an alleyway and used his pants to wipe. After I offered for us to go home he said no? And he stayed all night commando under his jeans…. defiantly a rock bottom for me
I will never forget and I’m still traumatised, I had been with this guy at his boy’s house.We had been there for about 4 days and on the 4th day work called him and he asked me if he could use my toothbrush cause he had to go to work, I asked why mine? And he said cause he hadn’t brought one meaning the whole 4 days he wasn’t brushing his teeth, let’s just say he never heard from me again..) miss him though, the sex always banged.
GIRL! I was in a relationship with this man and we decided to have shower sex. NOW when it’s all said and done were in the shower so I’m definitely going to CLEAN myself still. we get out and start having sex again, when we take a break he scoots off the bed (mind you were in a hotel and the sheets were WHITE. this man scoots off the bed and leaves boo boo marks ON THE SHEETS. it was disgusting. just to find out later that he never wiped correctly
and his underwear always had stains in it. Tragic
Anon, please. I was dating this guy a few years ago when I was truly lost in life. He came onto me and we started having sex and all I could smell was fish on his skin and hair. I couldn’t concentrate, couldn’t cum, I couldn’t breathe. The smell was so awful but luckily he never lasted long. Afterwards, he confessed he needs to have a shower because he works in a fish factory and he hadn’t had a shower from his last shift which was the day before
Since then, I haven’t been able to go to the fishmonger’s or listen to any of the songs that were playing in the background because it still haunts me
politely told my ex he needs better oral hygiene (should’ve just left then). His teeth desperately needed braces anyway so this made everything so much worse . Ended up buying him an expensive electric toothbrush, taught him to floss and mouth wash be clearly he didn’t know and he still didn’t do it without being reminded Anyway he ended up cheating and genuinely that itself made him pretty easy to move on from . Never again, I am not his mum
Omg please keep me anonymous BUT this guy I was vibing with took me back to his place and I was ready to bussit wide open but the moment he opened the door? it smelt so so bad. There was trash stacked against the wall and surrounding an already overflowing bin, the floor and couch was covered in stains and hookah coal burns and ants everywhere. I asked to use the bathroom to just regroup and sis… Skidmarks everywhere in the toilet ;74, I told him I needed to leave, my roommate lost her keys and had no way of getting into our place. I have never been that disgusted in my life.
Omg Oloni I went on a date with this guy, we went bowling and then to dinner. We were wearing masks most of the time so I thought it was all good. He lives an hour from me so I told him he could stay the night at mine. When we got to my apartment and I took off my mask, I just noticed a scent. I thought maybe his feet were damp. He came close to me and I swear the smell nearly burnt my nostrils.
I tried to manage it. He now started scratching his balls. His whole body was smelling. Even his mouth. And over 30 minutes he went to pee 5 or 6 times. He asked if he could kiss me and came so close that my eyes watered. Even when he left in the morning he left the stench in my bed.
This is a 28-year-old man o. I had to block him on everything after that.
I had to use my burner
I dated a guy in my early 20s. We were long distance, so whenever I would visit him that’s when I started to see it because I stayed with him. Everything was dirty from his body to his room. I’m talking unwashed bedsheets and dust under the bed. This guy was a big guy as well so you can imagine the sweat. His idea of washing was a wet towel and sink ! I remember one time I visited him and had had enough so I asked him to replace his pillows that had gone grey/brown with filth. This guy refused and actually argued with me over this. I am ashamed to say I slept on them with just some cloth over it and actually got sick. I got a cold sore. I also want to add this guy wore tattered boxers. Boxers you can buy cheap even from Primark. Not my proudest experience.
So I was talking to his guy for a bit and he invited me to his home. Now I didn’t like how this man dressed, his hair or the high level of plaque on his teeth but he was a nice guy so I was willing to over look these things. So we met and went to Sainsbury’s cause he was gonna cook for me and I’m just getting this strong smell of wet dog in the air, as I wondered where it was coming from I realised he was the wet dog. So we went back to his and despite the way my nose was being offended we did knock boots. It was disgusting, his saliva was thick as hell so kissing him wasn’t was gross and please tell me why when I start sucking his dick I’m tasting piss. It’s actually a piss take cause when I know I’m going to be intimate with someone I shave, exfoliate and moisturise 3 times but my man could even take a quick shower or wash under his hood properly. Needless to say I had to end things with him after this experience.
Hi Oloni, I’d been seeing my man for about 4 months and I’d gone over to his to spend a couple days. When I first got there I saw he’d run out of toothpaste hand soap and shower gel so I just bought all of those things from the corner shop, he didn’t say anything. After being there for about 3 days I noticed this guy hadn’t showered I’m not being funny I was so incredibly disgusted he smelt so bad and I literally had to hold my breath around him. I wasn’t even trying be polite and I kept asking him when he was gonna shower and he just kept saying soon. Nigga what????
My ex had revolting oral hygiene. I didn’t notice at first presumably because he would make an effort to brush his teeth or use gum during the initial stages but eventually his breath would be so bad it would make me gag next to him. As in, I’d be sat next to him in bed minding my business and the smell he was breathing into the atmosphere would make me feel ill. He also smelt heavily of BO/ build up down there so I knew he wasn’t washing himself thoroughly. He showed his true colours as being unemployed, homeless and a cheat not too long into the relationship and not long after this all started to be a problem so luckily I got rid but it still haunts me. And on top of everything some men have a sexy natural scent but he absolutely did not
Dear Oloni, this is my moment I tell you. My ex had NO personal hygiene. We started as a long distance relationship where when I saw him he would always be clean and freshly showered. Oh how that changed when we moved in together. To the point I refused to have sex and I couldn’t get wet because his whole being STUNK! Like don’t get me started on his breath I would run him showers, baths and put toothpaste on his toothbrush to make him clean because it was revolting n he just wouldn’t look after himself. He made me physically sick, I had to leave be ain’t no way I’m staying with a grown as man 14 years my senior who can’t look after himself
Was giving him a massage before intimacy and he flipped on his stomach. The worst smell I’ve ever smelt in my life was emanating from his behind, it’s crazy how some straight men literally refuse to wipe their ass correctly