If You Just Weren’t Feeling Your Love, Text Them This

Texts To Send If You Weren’t Into Your Date || Some dates are so good they make you want to stay  up late with your crew and analyze every single juicy item.  Others can be so cruel, all you can think of is going to Netflix marathon straight home.

The post-date routine on good nights probably involves sending out a text, “I enjoyed hanging out tonight.
On the same way, when you were not on your date it is time to normalize sending a text.
And though ghosting sounds like just another aspect of dating, it can still hurt AF and most of the time, honesty is the best policy.



It is a challenging job. Your goal is to simply say to someone, “Hey, I wasn’t in you,” if you want to embrace it. But the alternative is to lead someone on or vanish without a trace, and almost anyone who has encountered ghosting knows how uncomfortable it can feel. If you want a clean break, the best way to get there may be to send a slightly awkward text that will help you both move on.
Here’s some inspo to launch you off.



1. Hey! I just want to let you know that I enjoyed meeting you last night, but I didn’t feel that much romantic chemistry between us. I wanted to be honest instead of wasting any more of your time!

2. About our date last week: I really liked hanging out with you, but I’ve met someone who I think is a better match. Wishing you the best!

3. I just want to say, I think you’re a wonderful person, but I’ve met someone else who I’d like to explore things with and don’t want to lead you on. Thanks for spending time with me and I’m wishing you all the best!

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4. Hi! I just want to say I appreciate the time we spent together, but I don’t think we’re a good match. I’m wishing you the best of luck.

5. I’ve had fun on these last few dates, but I don’t see us progressing to a long-term, committed relationship.

6. Thank you for the date, but I don’t think that we should see each other again. TBH, when you said [insert offensive moment here], it made me really uncomfortable and I don’t think we’re a good match. Wishing you luck on your dating journey.

7. I appreciate the time you spent with me, but after a few dates, I don’t think we’re romantically compatible. I’d rather be honest than continue leading you on! Thank you, and I wish you the very best!

8. I’ve enjoyed spending time with you over these last few weeks, but I’ve thought about it and I don’t think this is going to work out.

9. You’re a wonderful person, but I just don’t think we’re compatible.

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Texts To Send If You Weren’t Into Your Date

10. After some reflection, I’ve come to the conclusion that we don’t want the same type of relationship, so I don’t think this is going to work out. Thanks for your time and wishing you the best.

11. I think you’re cool, but I don’t think we’d make a good couple. Friends? (Only say the last bit if you really mean it!)

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12. Hey, I had a wonderful time doing [insert date activity here], but I don’t see this going anywhere romantic.

13. Thank you for last night, but I just didn’t feel that spark. I’m wishing you the best.

14. I really enjoyed getting to know you on our date, but I just don’t feel a connection between us.

15. I had a good time going out last night, but I don’t feel like we really clicked. LMK if you’re willing to stay friends!

Texts To Send If You Weren’t Into Your Date
Texts To Send If You Weren’t Into Your Date

16. I had fun last night, but I don’t see this connection becoming a long-term romantic relationship, and I don’t think it would be right to go on another date.

17. I think you’re a dope human being, but I don’t see this turning into a romantic relationship. Do you want to stay friends?

18. I just want to be upfront and say even though I had fun hanging out, I don’t see us as more than friends. If that’s alright with you, please keep in touch!

Romantic feelings (or lack thereof) can be really difficult to discuss. Whether you’re feeling warm and fuzzy, or totally turned off, you have the right to express that. If you were in the other person’s shoes, chances are, you’d like the same transparency so you’d know not to waste any more of your time or energy. The good news about sending a rejection text? It’s an easy way to politely but firmly tell someone you’re better off going your separate ways.

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