Does Penis Size Really Matter ? Women Speak Honestly On Bedroom Issues || One of the most discussed topics when it comes to intimacy issues is whether the size of the man really matters when it comes to satisfying his partner. The topic elicits many different responses depending on the people you are talking to.
On Thursday night, Zimbabwe’s Twitter was lit with the topic as many ladies gave their opinions and testimonies on the matter. Not surprisingly, a lot of men followed the discussion attentively. Some even going as far as offering their own thoughts, even though the discussion was meant for women.
The discussion started when a social media personality and modern-day agony aunt who uses the username Ask Tari, invited women to share their testimonies on whether size matters in the bedroom. She invited women to share their views and any testimonies in private so that she could share them on Twitter, anonymously of course. Ask Tari wrote,
Ladies, Does size really matter? Truth, please. Let’s settle this once and for all. U can respond anonymously kudm and ill post on your behalf. Im also looking for testimonies from vakaroorwa vari mavirgins. Are you satisfied? Do you enjoy? Or u often wonder if there is better out there?
It did not take long before Zimbabwean women started responding to the thread and sharing their views on the issue of size. Just like discussions elsewhere, there was no discernible consensus on the issue. Some ladies said that size is a huge factor that affects how much they enjoy physical intimacy.
Some even said that they were forced to dump their lovers because they were not gifted in that department. Others, however, dismissed the issue of size arguing that the only important thing is that a man should be able to use whatever he has. Others suggested that those who are not physically endowed should be inventive and make up for the shortfall by using other parts of their anatomy to satisfy their partners.
Below are some of the views and testimonies from Zimbabwean women speaking on whether size matters in the bedroom.
Hie Tari, Please Hide ID. I would like to say something about the dick size issue. I’m not married hangu but im active. So I dated this man for 4 years and he was my first. His dick was average it wasn’t bad. And for those 4 years, we would have sex and I was satisfied. I loved it and I thought his dick was big enough. I even used to think big dicks are overrated because he satisfied me.
When we broke up I slept with 2 other men one with a very big thick dick and the other with a big but thin dick. There was a big difference. These dicks took me to places I have never been before. The big and thick one was the best.
Something turned me on about the way my pussy would stretch. lt was pleasure kunze nemukati. The vaginal opening is very sensitive and pakanatsopuruzirwa the sex is nice and this thick dick yainatsobata mamuscles ese epadoor.
However, i got back to my ex and we had sex again. Now I couldn’t feel his dick and yaisanatsosvika kumberi. So maybe size doesn’t matter kana ukaroorwa uri virgin cz you will never know what the other taste like and you wont think of cheating because there is not room for compariso .Nhamo inouy when you have tasted some wonatsonzwa kuti big dick inonaka sei.
Up until now i only like guys with big dicks. Also with my ex i tried kuchinja maposition kuti ndiinzwe but haaa big dick is nice. Inonatsosvika kumberi mberi chaiko kusingasvikwe nedzidiki.Unonatsoinzwa kumusana chaiko.
I then dated umwe anga aine average dick haaa ndizvozvowo ndaitoinzwawo pasina condom otherwise maone.Size matters mufunge.Marry a guy whose size satisfies you otherwise unohurira mwana wevanhu.
What I would like to address is men who say if there is no comparison you won’t know blah blah. Gents that is silly. We are already programmed to know pleasure and pain by God even without comparison. When you hurt your pinky toe no one tells kuti urwadziwe. It’s just a random response that’s preinstalled in us.
Ukadya chinhu chinonaka kunyange usati wambochidya your taste buds will randomly send you a response kuti we like this. When I had sex with a small dick, I lost my virginity and married that guy zvaisangonaka. I had never had sex but my body was just not feeling the pleasure.
I had not f*cked any guy, I’m was Willom tight but I was not feeling the pleasure. When he would eat me ndaitofeeler kuti apa ndanakirwa Chero ndandisati ndakambozviitwa. When I found a big dick my body automatically told me kuti Tanakirwa.
Hie Tarie, I was married a virgin. I don’t know I think my husband has a good size. Chikuru ndechekuti munhu wacho anogona here kuchishandisa chete. I don’t think it’s all about size inini.
Hie tari size matters. The first time I lost my virginity it was with a guy who was quite small. Ndandisinganzwe pleasure yacho kuti inofamba sei but I thought maybe I’m one of those people vane clitoral stimulation chete cause I would like it when he would eat me. Or when I would rub myself against a pillow or a vibrator.
Also I used to think s*x hainake ini and zvaindinetsa kuti I waited all my life for this. Apa kana wamumba watovamo so hapana chekuita. He was adventurous papasina but tambo yaisasvika ku paraffin. Ndakangozojaira and I thought ndinofa ndisina kunakirwa ne penetrative sex from a man.
My next marriage ndakazoroorwa neane hombe. Handina kumusiya cause it was small he unfortunately passed away. Vakomana hombe ichingopinda unoinzwa ku heart uko. The hype is really real I realized that I never had a low libido kuti s*x yacho yaisangonakawo. I realized that I would cum so many times and it was just really good, well still is.
He doesn’t even need to do too much. More so if he rubs your clit while screwing you unoita double orgasm. Unogona kufa nekunakirwa nemb*ro.
Tete Tari, On your issue ye size iyi for me i doesn’t matter as long as orgasm ikasvika chete. Been married now for llyears, my hubby is actually quite average and i had bigger before him but i only started to enjoy him when i stopped comparing with others.
Connection yatinayo so after so many years that man can make me squirt in 2 mins with just penetration, ukazoisa kaforeplay ndobva ndanatsopera manje. I think i realised kuti working together uchimuudza zvaunoda iye uchimuudza zvaunoda iye achikuudza zvaanoda munosvika mese kudenga reorgasm wether ari muhombe kana mudiki. But people are different manje, this may not be the right way for others
Hide ID ka, thanks.
Hie Tarie hide ID …mine is actually a question to those who are saying big dcks are good how do they do it ?the positions?because as for me all I experienced was pain and kutorwadziwa for up to 2 days ended going to my ex who had a smaller size for sx.
I have honestly only been with 1 small size and it went downhill after that for other reasons.. it’s easier for a woman to be satisfied by a smaller sizes if she’s never been with bigger sizes..but bigger is better.. prolonging foreplay works unfortunately its the smaller guys who don’t do it in my experience.
With my first sexual experience he was very big, he was like 20cm erect and still he would bang on my cervix as if I wasn’t feeling him already which made the whole experience painful for me. My 2nd bf was the opposite he was very small, it was probably 9cm erect and it was thin I would lie there and not feel a thing.
Eventually I met a guy who had an average length and girth dick, his dick was around 15cm when erect and I enjoyed that experience because it was not hitting my cervix all the time and it was a bit curved so it also hit my g spot on the anterior surface of the vagina. So now I prefer average size curved dick.
Hi Sis. Please hide. Size matters hey. Like I dated a guy who was huge (my first) and boy the guy did the pots! Best s*x of my life.
I then dated a guy who was small and what made it worse is I have a big ass so doing doggy was already a mission trying to get it in was something else. But to be honest I tolerated him and the s*x was mediocre. He was average and you could see he would try but I just wasn’t feeling him and I eventually broke up with him not only because of his character but his size played a huge role in my decision.
Hie tarie.please hide ID.the issue ye size,,,size is important I tell you. My ex boyfriend was the best I ever had. the sex was out of this world. he was big zvekunyatsoti yeah and he had extremely strong erections that I had never felt before.with bae now he is average the sex is normal just normal. Inozongobatsiridzwa nerudo otherwise the bigger the better.
Hi Tari on the subject about does size matter. Size matters only when the guy has no technique. First time I squirted was with a small one. So its all about technique. Some big tools can actually be uncomfortable.
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I have honestly only been with 1 small size and it went downhill after that for other reasons.. it’s easier for a woman to be satisfied by a smaller sizes if she’s never been with bigger sizes..but bigger is better.. prolonging foreplay works unfortunately its the smaller guys who don’t do it in my experience ..
Hi. I used to think size matters, the guy who broke my virginity was huge, and it was horrible and painful for the first year. Broke up naye, dated someone else who was bigger but he knew how to get me wet so I started enjoying sex. Next bf was tiny, hapana kana chandaitombonzwa, had to leave him because the sex wasn’t working.
Next guy I was always so ready to receive him paaizoisa ndaitonzwa bho. I think problem is having a small dick and not knowing how to use it as well as not knowing how to pleasure a woman in other ways. Vagina inotoita adjust, ndakatozoona kuti even small yacho zvotobuda ndichitotunda.
Size doesn’t matter, we first fall in love with the person zvekuti every other short fall of theirs won’t really matter . That’s for me unless achindirova nekundituka yeah ipapo love won’t be enough. Ini hangu ndoda kudiwa.
What are your thoughts on the issue?